Thursday, January 31, 2013

These Simple Self Help Tips Will Change Your Life!

By Myron Frantzich


There is not one person in the world who is 100% happy with the way that they are. There is always at least one item about themselves that they would like to change. Self help is the art of recognizing which of these habits can be changed and how to be stimulated into starting this. Some handy tips to get you on your way are as follows.

Reward yourself for positive behavior. Whether you are actively trying to lose weight or trying to better your time and distance on your morning run, recognize when you have made an important improvement and reward yourself accordingly. A new outfit or a trip to the salon would be a real incentive to work until you achieve your goals.

Accept responsibility for the things that happen in your life. Do not blame others; the decisions that you make are the reason that you are in your current situation. Once you realize this, you will be able to start making positive changes in your life, and you will have control over your future.

Get to know your internal moral compass. When people look beyond all the frustrations of life, they can find guidance from their true self. Most people discover they really are brave, honest, believe in justice and the benefits of self-sacrifice. Anger, stress and other emotions tend to pile on top of our true nature, reducing us to less than we could be. Reconnect with yourself by relaxing and letting go of the frustrated emotional layers.

Build a personal brand. Personal brands are your promise to the rest of the world about who you are and what you stand for. When people think of you, they should think of your brand and the impact it has made. This will take awhile, but will be worth it in the long run.

Look at the way you are living your life, right now, as if you are in a bubble. It is your little protected zone. Allow yourself to do things that are outside of your protected bubble. By doing this, you will see that it is okay to do things that are outside of what you are used to doing.

Get organized. Organize your things nightly before going to bed so you are ready to take on the next day. This will help you organize your thoughts for the next day while you are getting things together. This will help reduce stress because you will have your day laid out in front of you.

Practice discipline in all its aspects. Whether on a mental, psychical or spiritual level, discipline is an important thing to have and to practice. If you suspect that you might be overindulging in something, take a step back and really look at yourself. After you have accessed the problem, you can then correct your behavior.

Walk the talk of your words. In personal development, there is nothing worse for growth than saying one thing, and doing something else instead. If you pray, don't just say the words. Reflect on their meaning and follow suit. If you say you are going to do something, then follow through. If you express a belief, then own it with your actions.

Before positive personal development can occur, you must admit that there is a gap between where you are now and where your ultimate position in life is. Failing to admit that this gap exists, prevents any further steps from taking place and therefore, leaves you at a stand still.

A great tip that can help you with your personal development goals is to not put all your eggs in one basket. If all you do is obsess about your progress, you'll become impatient and you might lose motivation. Try focusing on many different things and not just your goal.

A great tip for to achieve greater personal development is to try and potions yourself at your limitations at all times. You are never going to achieve everything you can unless you push yourself. This is the only way you can reach your true potential as a successful person.

Following the hints above should assist you in your journey of self help and redevelopment. Do remember that the key to any change is perseverance, patience and tenacity. No changes can be achieved overnight as it takes time to develop habits and therefore time to alter this ingrained behavior. But it can be done and you have already taken the first step by reading this.




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